hey bestie! you’re doing better
Than Your Brain Actually Thinks
An eccentric mental wellness and lifestyle blog about anxiety, everyday life, and the Olympic-level overthinking nobody asked us to do. Overthinkers gather here! Let’s laugh it out.

hey, i’m nae.
Bringing humor and laughter to anxiety and panic disorder.

MENTAL WELLNESS · HEALTHY BOUNDARIES · INNER CHILD HEALING · TRAUMA RECOVERY
can you relate?
of worries never happened
mental tabs opened
TIMES I’VE said, “I’M FINE”
OVERTHINKing worked
statistics questionable
My personality and overthinking? Unfortunately is not.
RECOVERING PEOPLE PLEASER AND MENTAL WELLNESS CHEERLEADER
A Little Nerdy. A Lot of Quirky. Introverted.
Occasionally Unsupervised.
Hey, I’m Nae! A delightfully weird woman with a big personality. I love life, I love to laugh, and somewhere between being a responsible adult and a complete goofball, I’ve decided that being normal is highly overrated. Besides, I tried it once. Terrible experience. Zero stars.
I created Easier Said Than Calm because anxiety has had enough airtime in my life, and I figured it was time to give laughter the microphone.
This space is to remind ourselves that life can still be beautiful even when our brains are acting like unpaid reality TV producers. I’m glad you’re here!
HEY BESTIE, KEEP READING
More shenanigans
worth laughing over.
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A NOTE FROM your bestie, nae
Got Something to Say? My inbox has officially entered the chat.
Questions? Comments? Send them my way! I’ll respond as soon as I finish overthinking my reply and deciding whether three exclamation points is too aggressive.
xoxo, Nae
work smarter, stress less
Managing money without mental
meltdowns.
The Remote Squad
Whether you’re looking for a remote job that doesn’t require a headset glued to your ear, or a second income that won’t cost you your last three brain cells, I’ve got you! Let’s find ways to make money without making your nervous system file a formal complaint.


because peace
of mind is expensive these days.

BESTIES
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certified stationery junkie
Obsessed with all things Pen & Paper.
Some women collect shoes. I collect notebooks, journals, pretty pens, and enough stationery to open a small office supply store. Do I need another notebook? Absolutely not. Will I buy it anyway? Let’s not ask unnecessary questions.
This is my little corner of the internet dedicated to all things pen and paper. From gorgeous journals and must-have planners to pens that write like butter, I’m sharing my favorite stationery finds, little obsessions, and things that make everyday life a bit more fabulous.
signs of obsession
You have favorite pens.
You collect notebooks.
You love journals and paper.
Disclaimer: This blog may cause excessive notebook purchases, an unreasonable attachment to gel pens, and the sudden urge to reorganize your desk.
side effects include
happiness and an overflowing stationery drawer.
Shop by category
What are you looking for?
Explore my favorite things for home, style, travel, and everyday life. Click a category to start browsing.

Home
Beautiful things for everyday spaces.

Style
The pieces I wear on repeat.

Travel
What will always come with me.

Everyday
The little things that make life better.
FOR THE WOMAN
who loves deeply but chooses peace.


single, cute and slightly anxious
Love, Butterflies & Boundaries
Navigating single life with a little anxiety, a lot of self-discovery, and some much-needed boundaries. I’m sharing my personal journey, lessons learned, and the occasional “girl, what was I thinking?” moment. Because dating is one thing, but learning yourself along the way? That’s where the real love story begins.
